Long-distance relationship

" Absence makes the heart grow fonder "- or so the saying goes.

But what if the time away is prolonged, or your partner is more relaxed about the situation? What if you are the one whos gonna stay and your partner is going away? What can you do about it? Can you stop thinking about it? How are you going to survive this phase? What are you going to do when your partner is away? Is your partner going to be loyal? What if your partner finds someone else? What if bla bla. Can you bla bla. Will you bla bla. bla bla bla bla.

So let me help you :p For you guys who have to deal with this problem, I can give some tips ( heh heh! ) First, be selfish! Think about yourself. About what you want. From there, you can set your own decisions. Always bare in mind that life is unpredictable. ( or maybe life is a box of chocolate )

Love is linked to being physically near and any threat to that is also a threat to your emotional security. Some might have said this ; If you loved me, you'd stay. And then you fight. Its hard being away from each other. U tend to fight because of every little thing. Jealousy or even when u are hungry! You just tend to fight. Being away from each other is undoubtably HARD. So what can u do about it? The key to making long-distance relationships work is to talk honestly and openly about how you feel. Couples often fall into this one stupid silly trap ; LETS PRETEND LIKE ITS OK. If asked, you both say ure fine and okay but deep inside, you are too sad but Too shy to admit it. Be Honest. Tell your partner the truth and please for god sake dont go overboard.

I agree that its quite hard to communicate once your partner has gone away. But try to keep track on things with your partner. Staying in touch regularly is the key to surviving a long-distance relationship.

Heres some of the things you can do to keep in touch.

*Use the technology! Variety ways to communicate; email, telephone, friendster,myspace, yourspace,herspace whateverspace etc etc

*Make surprise calls. It shows that you care.

*Send recent pictures of yourself

*Create a blog for you and your partner

*Send little gifts ( or big , to me ) (,")

*Give me money

*Do whatever you want.

See, there are actually a lot of things you can do in order to save the relationship. Make wise decisions. Do not jump to conclusions. Do not accuse your partner for something you are not even sure of. You love your partner. Make sure that everything goes well because true love is hard to find. But make sure youre aware of the reunion anticlimax. Life isnt a fantasy. Rainbow City doesnt exist. Winnie the pooh too. You might notice that your partner has changed in some ways so be extra careful. Many couples feel disappointed and frustrated when things aren't as they'd hoped.





p/s : If you are too afraid of commitment, talk to your friends or u can let the tarantula bite you and pray u will turn out to be spiderman the next day.

so cute.

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